The judging of the designers work is extremely subjective. Each person that sees the design will make their judgement based upon personal preferences for design styles and flower choices. There is no set of common criteria used in making decisions about whether a person likes or dislikes a floral arrangement. In fact, there is not a standard criteria list which is used by everyone. To further convolute matters, judging actually comes from more than just one or two people _ they come from the recipient, the customer who placed the order, and third party observers (anyone else who sees the arrangement). Therefore it is virtually impossible to please everyone with each design that is created.
Whichever way you decide to go with your flowers, a lovely idea is to try and tie your whole theme together so if you're going for roses, then have a rose design featured somewhere within your headdress. Look out for a company who can work with you and your designs and most importantly your budget to create that one_off, bespoke creation just for you.